7/08/2026

Tell Us About ... Dance

I have been asked if I'd like to participate in the Global Writing Challenge on the second Thursday of the month. This is the second time for me and I really enjoyed reading all of the posts about sunshine last month.
My posts will go live a little early (to avoid collision with the silent films), so if the posts of the others are not live yet, please check back later.
The current membership consists of Deb’s WorldSuzy TurnerWithin a World of My OwnOnce Upon a Time Happily Ever After, Marsha in the Middle, Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa, and me. It's fun to learn how differently everyone interprets a topic.
You can play along and link up with us!
If that's too short notice for you, maybe next time? Here are the prompts for the coming months:
August - A Day in the Life
September - Poetry
October - Birthday
November - Superstition

Photo of German dancer Mary Wigman
by Jacob Merkelbach, 1922
Public domain via Wikipedia

The prompt for today was "Dance", chosen by Suzy.

Let me tell you right away that I have never been a dancer. I can't remember ever having been one of those children who hear a song on the radio or TV and immediately start dancing to it happily.
I had friends who took ballet classes early and later jazz dance, and once I was taken along to pick one of them up from class because we wanted to meet at her house afterwards and I was early. It was a world that was utterly strange to me, and I honestly never envied my friends for the experience.

Ballerinas Barbie and Cara from 1976
(Barbie and Cara swapped their outfits)

Peer pressure - aka my best friends - made me take the basic dancing class. Here in Germany, dancing schools have a long tradition with the oldest one existing since 1787.
Originally, classes weren't limited to dancing, however, they were also about manners, dress codes, and conversation. Of course, all of that has evolved and changed, even in my time already. Over time, the dress code has become less and less restrictive and new dances are being offered.
My own experience was, hm, meh (not just the dancing itself, but also the whole teenage mating dance ritual around it 
😉). I just couldn't get into it and never contemplated going on to the advanced class (also called bronze today), much less silver, gold, and gold star.
As an adult I usually got around having to dance and mostly danced only at home with Merlin, Greebo or Ponder (sometimes even two of them).

That doesn't mean, however, that I hate dancing. I just want others who are so much better at it to do it for me to look at - classical ballet, musicals, tap dance, rock'n'roll, folk dance, I could keep going.
Those performances can be breathtaking, acrobatic, incredibly elegant, but also hilarious sometimes.
Here are just a few very randomly chosen examples for your entertainment.
Unfortunately, the videos seem to show directly sometimes and sometimes they don't, also depending on your browser settings, so I always added the link in the description as well.

I can't condone kidnapping, but the barn raising dance from "Seven Brides for Seven Brothers" - wow, just wow.


Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman dancing a Scottish reel in "Indiscreet".


Audrey Hepburn doing a kind of expressionist dance in "Funny Face"


Bobby Banas (who also was in "West Side Story") and others doing the "Nitty Gritty"



Whitey's Lindy Hoppers in "Hellzapoppin'". No words.


You may think about Bollywood what you want, but the dances are amazing, here "Dola Re Dola Re".


I learned about "eccentric dancer" Jack Stanford through a YouTube suggestion.


Or how about this incredible snake dance by Janine Janik and Christian Arnaut?


In the 60s there was a couple named Fern on German TV, with short lessons for classic ballroom dancing, but also for "play dances" for parties, like the letkis (spelled Letkiss in Germany) which is based on a Finnish folk dance or the Hoppel Poppel (not the East German recipe!) in this video.
It never fails to make me snigger.


Enough, enough!
Of course I could keep going and going and going, but I think I've proven my point. I like to sing along with a song, but the world doesn't need me to dance, there are other things I can do better and like doing better.
Sometimes you just need to know your limits.


Now let's see what the others have to tell us (Debbie is still travelling).


Suzy
 shares why dancing has meant so much throughout her life, and how one night on the dance floor changed everything forever.

Sally
 
discusses why she can play music but she can't dance to it.


For Leslie, this month's prompt - dancing - brings lots of things to mind: a favorite memory, ballet, and a great Ginger Rogers quote.  Which will she write about? 

When 
Marsha was teaching, her students would beg her not to sing (she still did).  But, when it came to dancing, they were all for it. I mean, who doesn’t want to see their teacher make a complete fool of herself?  Read Marsha’s post to discover all the goofy things she and her class used to do!

Amy shares thoughts on dance through quotes and lyrics as pertaining to her life history thus far ...


And now you. Tell us about "Dance" and link up with us!



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18 comments:

  1. Hi Cat, seeing the Barbie dolls brings back fond memories of my childhood! I am going to look at the dance videos. I love the old dances and seeing people enjoying themselves. Thank you so much for sharing!

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    1. Barbie and Cara dance better than I, Linda!
      It was really hard not to keep going with the dance videos, I could think of so many more that are worth watching.

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  2. What a fun post, Cat! As a life-long dancer, I can't even imagine anyone not wanting to get up and move when the music starts lol! But it was interesting reading your experience. I did laugh when you called it a mating ritual! And the videos you featured are awesome—it's amazing how some people can move their bodies lol!
    Big hugs
    Suzy xx

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    1. I prefer moving in my head because it's not awkward there and I can dance like a feather! 😉 Almost like the people in the videos.
      Some things are for participating and others for watching and dancing is the latter for me.

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  3. I loved dancing more and more the older I got. I think it was because I just didn't care anymore what people thought of it. Lol.. I took highland dancing as a little girl, but that was the only dance class. After that, it was just dancing in the club. I am not a great dancer, in fact I am probably terrible at it. But I love it and lament the lack of places for 50 year old women to go dancing.

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    1. We used to have "dancing cafés" in the area, I think one still exists, another one closed a few years ago after 60 years. I was never at one, though, and I only was at a disco once or twice and a hundred horses couldn't drag me into a club. I'm more of the ordinary pub girl myself, or should I say I was.
      I'm sorry, though, that people who would like to go dancing outside of a club are so limited in their choices.

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  4. Cat, we have got to be related!!! But, I DID want to take dance classes. My mom didn't want to take me to any because we would have had to travel about 45 minutes to get to a place that gave them. I probably would have fallen on my face or broken some one's foot if I had gone. I loved all of these videos, especially the Nitty Gritty! I've seen Audrey Hepburn's dance before because I really like that movie. But, I think the Dola Re Dola Re is my favorite! There's something so sumptuous in those Bollywood productions that I just love (but, of course I do!)!

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    1. 45 minutes is a lot. I could walk to mine, maybe 15 minutes? Actually, a friend of mine whose mother was supposed to give us ride once made out with her boyfriend and completely ignored me, so I walked home and then thought I would probably get into trouble for walking home alone at that hour and walked back.
      Banas was so enthusiastic! I re-watch that video a lot.
      I think I never talked about it because it has become harder to get Bollywood movies here after one site shut down, but I had a serious Bollywood phase. I like a lot of the music and I love the dances. Rai and Dixit are absolutely superb in Dola Re Dola Re.

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  5. I love this take on it. I have to watch Indiscreet - I don't remember. Gene Kelly was my favourite dancer. I loved his dances. Tom Holland's Umbrella or Jackie Chan's bollywood dance are a lot of fun...

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    1. Gene Kelly was also my favorite dancer (and has a beaded portrait on my fan wall), but I felt it would have been too predictable to include him. I also love Fred Astaire, but prefer Kelly. Holland's Umbrella was so good! I hadn't known before that he was a trained dancer.

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  6. For years my husband and I took dancing lessons on Sunday. That's even how we met. It was lovely to dance together.

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    1. How lovely for you that are able to share that!

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  7. Dancing isn't for everyone, I find. Just like so many other things. And yet, I want my husband to want to dance at least a little bit with me. HA!! I go fishing with him. And that certainly isn't my cup of tea. I think I may use that argument to try to persuade him again. You have shared some great dancing clips. I was always a big fan of musicals and the dancing that was included in them. Those Bollywood gals are athletes in my book. I was reminded that I tried belly dancing because my then mother-in-law said I needed to belly dance for her son. We eventually divorced!!

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    1. I understand that, Leslie. It should be a compromise. My ex fished, but it was never a whole trip and if it was some place nice (with enough shadow for me), I went along and took a book.
      What a weird thing to say! It's funny, though, I almost shared a Bollywood belly dance instead, but the clip was a bit steamy, so I decided against it. The belly dance was fantastic.

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  8. I’ve never enjoyed dancing either. I do enjoy watching though. Those Bollywood costumes though! I enjoyed watching Hellzapoppin again - I’d seen it before - the athleticism is incredible!

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    1. So opulent, those costumes, aren't they? I know it's escapism, but I need that sometimes.
      The athleticism, the speed, the power!

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  9. I enjoyed reading this! We all had to do country and folk dancing at primary school, and even went in for group competitions, up to the Albert Hall in London one year! However, I had to be a boy because I was a tiny bit taller than my friend Emma, and wear beige trousers. I went to one ballet class as a child - and refused to get out of the car. I wanted the pink cardigan but then realised I'd be hopeless at the actual dancing!

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    1. "I wanted the pink cardigan" made me laugh. I think there were quite a few girls in my class who wanted the "look", but eventually learned they couldn't or didn't want to do the work.
      Also I can't help seeing you do Morris dance before my inner eye now.

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