Time again for the Global Writing Challenge on the
second Thursday of the month.
My posts will go live a little early (to avoid collision with the silent films), so if the posts of the others are not live yet, please check back later.
The current membership consists of Deb’s World, Suzy Turner, Within a World of My Own, Once Upon a Time Happily Ever After, Marsha in the Middle, Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa, and me. It's fun to learn how differently everyone interprets a topic.
You can play along and link up with us!
If that's too short notice for you, maybe next time? Here are the prompts for the coming months:
November - Superstition
December - Why do you blog?
My posts will go live a little early (to avoid collision with the silent films), so if the posts of the others are not live yet, please check back later.
The current membership consists of Deb’s World, Suzy Turner, Within a World of My Own, Once Upon a Time Happily Ever After, Marsha in the Middle, Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa, and me. It's fun to learn how differently everyone interprets a topic.
You can play along and link up with us!
If that's too short notice for you, maybe next time? Here are the prompts for the coming months:
November - Superstition
December - Why do you blog?
The prompt for today was "Birthdays", chosen by Amy.
It sounds like an easy one, doesn't it?
Not so easy for me, though. You see, birthdays just aren't a big thing for me personally and haven't been for many years.
Oh, I would lie if I said I didn't like surprises and presents or a call from family or a good friend, but I also like those all year round, and as a matter of fact, it's really nice if you haven't expected it, isn't it?
I'm also not the kind of person who makes a fuss about "round birthdays" as we call them in Germany (30th, 40th, etc.) or freaks out about them. For example, one of my friends used to say - I don't know if that was a quote or not - that the best ten years in the life of a woman are those between 29 and 30. I'm not like that.
I think the only birthday I was slightly excited about was the 18th, but even that I only "celebrated" by going to the pub where I met some friends (it really was just another evening at the pub).
I don't give parties and I haven't been to a big birthday (or other) party in decades because I don't deal well with groups larger than, say, six people. If I went, I would be the person in the corner with the cat 😉
I always took off work on my birthday, by the way, even if there wasn't anything planned. Something the ex and I did was just drive around a bit, take in what our region's got to offer and maybe stop somewhere spontaneously for a bite to eat.
Next I thought about telling you some facts around birthdays. Who invented the party with cake, who thought of putting candles on the cake, things like that, but the pages I looked at didn't necessarily agree, so that was out, too.
I'm afraid the best I can offer you are random birthday memories.
When I was a child, birthdays and other special occasions usually meant buttercream cake, a rich and heavy cake and the highlight was always the number for the birthday being piped on the cake, at least for me.
German buttercream is different from American buttercream, by the way. A piece of such a cake could go a long way.
I can't even say for sure when the last time was that I had a buttercream cake like the birthday cakes, but I seem to remember I ate some "Frankfurter Kranz" (Frankfurt Crown Cake) a few years ago.
I was lucky to have birthday in summer, so we could just play outside. Once I invited a boy from school, but while we others ran around - dressing up in old lace curtains inspired by old movies - and had fun, he stayed inside reading "Bessy" comics which I thought was terribly boring of him. Maybe he didn't have comics at home.
If you wonder, "Bessy" was a long-running Belgian Wild West comic series about young Andy Cayoon and his female collie Bessy. You can imagine which TV show inspired it.
Fast forward to my only big party. I had just started dialysis five days before and the ex thought it would cheer me up to celebrate potluck style at our local zoo (where we had already volunteered for a few years). It was a nice idea from someone who has never been a fan of large groups, either, and of course it was nice to have friends there, but because I didn't feel very well, it was also rather exhausting. The food was good, though 😉
Another birthday I remember was the time when a friend invited me to go to Baden-Baden, a famous spa resort, with her for the day.
We strolled around, admired the beautiful old buildings, had something to eat, and imagined how it was in the 19th century (my first thought were Regency dresses of course), a heyday of the resort.
It was incredibly hot for a June day, though, and in order to take a break from the heat, my friend suggested to visit the casino which is part of the Kurhaus, not to gamble, but to have a look around (and enjoy the A/C!).
When we went to pay the entrance fee and showed our IDs, the receptionist suddenly burst out "Happy Birthday" which led to strange people in the queue chiming in. Just the kind of attention I love! Not.
Luckily, it was still very early and the queue wasn't too long (there wasn't much gambling going on yet either which meant we could look around without disturbing people).
Anyhow, I got in for free and also got a voucher for a glass of prosecco which we enjoyed at the long bar (obviously my friend had to pay for hers, but she said it was worth it to see my allergic reaction to mine - red head!).
This was just a glimpse at a few of my birthday memories.
I could have told you that birthdays give me an occasion for self-reflection and whatnot, but it would simply not be true because mostly my birthdays are just - well, days.
I'm sure the others will have more to tell.
Let's see what it will be.
Amy loves celebrating birthdays of family and friends and wants to design her own perfect day!
Suzy writes about the joys and challenges of having a Boxing Day birthday.
Debbie seems to be attending a lot of birthday parties lately!
Sally considers birthdays and unbirthdays from the perspective of a December girl.
As Marsha contemplates a milestone birthday, she writes about memorable past birthdays as well as her plans for the next year.
Leslie is sharing the birth-days of the 2 babies that made her mommy.
It sounds like an easy one, doesn't it?
Not so easy for me, though. You see, birthdays just aren't a big thing for me personally and haven't been for many years.
Oh, I would lie if I said I didn't like surprises and presents or a call from family or a good friend, but I also like those all year round, and as a matter of fact, it's really nice if you haven't expected it, isn't it?
I'm also not the kind of person who makes a fuss about "round birthdays" as we call them in Germany (30th, 40th, etc.) or freaks out about them. For example, one of my friends used to say - I don't know if that was a quote or not - that the best ten years in the life of a woman are those between 29 and 30. I'm not like that.
I think the only birthday I was slightly excited about was the 18th, but even that I only "celebrated" by going to the pub where I met some friends (it really was just another evening at the pub).
I don't give parties and I haven't been to a big birthday (or other) party in decades because I don't deal well with groups larger than, say, six people. If I went, I would be the person in the corner with the cat 😉
I always took off work on my birthday, by the way, even if there wasn't anything planned. Something the ex and I did was just drive around a bit, take in what our region's got to offer and maybe stop somewhere spontaneously for a bite to eat.
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Next I thought about telling you some facts around birthdays. Who invented the party with cake, who thought of putting candles on the cake, things like that, but the pages I looked at didn't necessarily agree, so that was out, too.
I'm afraid the best I can offer you are random birthday memories.
When I was a child, birthdays and other special occasions usually meant buttercream cake, a rich and heavy cake and the highlight was always the number for the birthday being piped on the cake, at least for me.
German buttercream is different from American buttercream, by the way. A piece of such a cake could go a long way.
I can't even say for sure when the last time was that I had a buttercream cake like the birthday cakes, but I seem to remember I ate some "Frankfurter Kranz" (Frankfurt Crown Cake) a few years ago.
I was lucky to have birthday in summer, so we could just play outside. Once I invited a boy from school, but while we others ran around - dressing up in old lace curtains inspired by old movies - and had fun, he stayed inside reading "Bessy" comics which I thought was terribly boring of him. Maybe he didn't have comics at home.
If you wonder, "Bessy" was a long-running Belgian Wild West comic series about young Andy Cayoon and his female collie Bessy. You can imagine which TV show inspired it.
Fast forward to my only big party. I had just started dialysis five days before and the ex thought it would cheer me up to celebrate potluck style at our local zoo (where we had already volunteered for a few years). It was a nice idea from someone who has never been a fan of large groups, either, and of course it was nice to have friends there, but because I didn't feel very well, it was also rather exhausting. The food was good, though 😉
Another birthday I remember was the time when a friend invited me to go to Baden-Baden, a famous spa resort, with her for the day.
We strolled around, admired the beautiful old buildings, had something to eat, and imagined how it was in the 19th century (my first thought were Regency dresses of course), a heyday of the resort.
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| Trinkhalle Baden-Baden (pumphouse and main building of the spa complex). picture by Gerd Eichmann, CC BY-SA 4.0 via Wikimedia Commons |
It was incredibly hot for a June day, though, and in order to take a break from the heat, my friend suggested to visit the casino which is part of the Kurhaus, not to gamble, but to have a look around (and enjoy the A/C!).
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| 1. The "Kurhaus", the casino is in the wing on the right. Picture by Bäderstadt, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons 2. Salon Pompadour Picture by A.Savin, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons |
When we went to pay the entrance fee and showed our IDs, the receptionist suddenly burst out "Happy Birthday" which led to strange people in the queue chiming in. Just the kind of attention I love! Not.
Luckily, it was still very early and the queue wasn't too long (there wasn't much gambling going on yet either which meant we could look around without disturbing people).
Anyhow, I got in for free and also got a voucher for a glass of prosecco which we enjoyed at the long bar (obviously my friend had to pay for hers, but she said it was worth it to see my allergic reaction to mine - red head!).
| Not my birthday cake full of candles, but a great view from below at one of the chandeliers in the Kurhaus (Weinbrenner-Saal) Picture by 3268zauber, CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons |
This was just a glimpse at a few of my birthday memories.
I could have told you that birthdays give me an occasion for self-reflection and whatnot, but it would simply not be true because mostly my birthdays are just - well, days.
I'm sure the others will have more to tell.
Let's see what it will be.
Amy loves celebrating birthdays of family and friends and wants to design her own perfect day!
Suzy writes about the joys and challenges of having a Boxing Day birthday.
Debbie seems to be attending a lot of birthday parties lately!
Sally considers birthdays and unbirthdays from the perspective of a December girl.
As Marsha contemplates a milestone birthday, she writes about memorable past birthdays as well as her plans for the next year.
Leslie is sharing the birth-days of the 2 babies that made her mommy.


















































