7/15/2025

Reading to cats

My little brother (not so little anymore) is almost nine years younger than I. Not just I, but also others in the family read all kinds of books and stories to him when he was small ... and a little bigger ... he'll admit himself that he was not an avid reader as a child because he just enjoyed being read to.
And although I would never have admitted that at the time, I now think I rather enjoyed reading to him except for the few times when I really had had other plans like watching a movie for example.

Have you ever read a sentence five times and still didn't know what you've read because your brain seemed to keep wandering off elsewhere - what do I still have to do today, what will I wear tomorrow, why do flies fly so erratically, where did I know the actress in the movie yesterday 
from or simply why are the people around me so loud ...
Reading something aloud can help us with our attention span and with processing what we read.
It activates our brain in different ways which can enhance comprehending and memorizing a text.

I have always been talking to myself on and off since I was a kid. To make the walk home from my friend's house less boring for example, I either read a book while walking or I made up little stories that I told myself whispering (I stopped if someone dared to walk close to me).
There are things at home I have to comment on while doing them. Sometimes I read an email out loud during drafting it to see if it makes sense and if I have covered everything.
When studying, I read something out loud if I had a problem to grasp it.
Eventually I started reading from books to myself every, now and then, a paragraph or even a chapter, but never a whole book.
Also, whenever one of my pets was sick and I held them in my arm, I read to them to comfort them. That began with Wurstel, my rabbit. I remember it like today, the only book that was in reach that day was Rübezahl, tales about a mountain spirit.

Then, about one and a half years ago, I started reading to my cats just for fun. I had sometimes done that before as well, little snippets here and there - because yes, I do talk to my cats and no, I have not started that since living on my own - but now I was doing it regularly.
Our first book was "At Christmas we feast : festive food through the ages" by British food historian Annie Gray. At first it was like "would you calm down now, come on, I'll read something to you", but I noticed I actually enjoyed doing it, and believe it or not, I felt the cats enjoyed listening. Okay, of course they did fall asleep eventually and I still read on until the chapter was finished, but yeah, it had something relaxing. 

You think that's ridiculous? A friend I told about it when we were talking about books laughed and asked me why I would think the cats enjoyed that.
Of course I would like to say now that they love my exquisite choice of literature and my talents as a reader, but that would truly be humoring myself. Our reading can only be called eclectic and my reading talents would definitely not qualify me for audiobooks.
Depending on the day I had, the temperatures, my level of tiredness or restlessness, and some other factors, I can be quite a good reader or a terrible one whose tongue gets twisted every few words.

You may wonder why I don't just participate in a reading program for children at the local library or find a group for shared reading if I like reading out loud.

There are several reasons.
Gundel and der Dekan are extremely understanding on my tongue twisting days. They don't complain if I skip a word, say a wrong one or if I struggle with the pronunciation for a second. You must know I usually read English books to them. For some reason it has always been more relaxing to me to read English out loud and German silently even before I read to the cats.
It's like a bedtime story meaning I do it before we go to sleep for the night. We don't read during the day. Well, I do, but silently. By now it feels like a good way to wind down, calm down and sometimes even sleep better (until one of the brats wakes me up for "breakfast" at 3 a.m.) or quicker. We usually do a chapter, sometimes more, rarely less, but there are no rules. The other day Gundel was lying in my arm purring while I petted her and read aloud. I think they pick up on my relaxation and they like that.

Excuse the bad pictures, but it's very hard to take one holding a camera up over your head and aiming blindly at something behind you.
When lying on the bed, I like to throw my hair back over the pillow to get it out of the way. Gundel settled in for our reading session - on my hair. Until der Dekan decided he wanted the spot, chased her off and it took a bit before we could go on reading.


They don't judge my reading choices. We've read about eating habits during Queen Victoria's time, we've read The Three Investigators books, we've read children's books, vintage crime, at the moment we alternate between a book about craft psychology and a biography about a crime author, we might add another volume from the Three Investigators.
I can choose time, duration, and book. Granted, there isn't much verbal feedback or discussion 
😋, but that's fine by me. Is it slower, too? Of course it is, but we pick books accordingly.

Reading to animals isn't unusual, by the way. Shelters have discovered the benefits of reading to animals to help them deal with stress in the shelter environment.
There are loads of programs for children reading to mostly dogs, but also cats. These programs also help children to improve their reading - again, pets are very forgiving about mistakes - and concentration.
You have probably seen some of those heartwarming of about children at home reading to their pets, too.
Why should that only be useful for children, though? Isn't it more that adults are embarrassed about doing something like this? And even talking about it?

People also read out loud to one another and feel a bit embarrassed about it. I would definitely want to be the reader in something like that because I'm not a fan of audiobooks and don't know if I would like having someone else reading to me even if I knew them well.

Are you a silent reader or do you like to read aloud, too?


Selected sources:

1. Do Pets Like Being Read To? The Surprising Benefits of Reading to Your Furry Friends. On: Doggie Dude Ranch and the O'Cat Corral
2. Sarah Manavis: Read me a story: why reading out loud is a joy for adults as well as kids. In: The Guardian (archive of The Observer), May 5, 2024
3. Regina Mennig: Shared Reading - Literat
ure for All. On the Robert-Bosch-Stiftung website, July 2018

10 comments:

  1. I recognize that I lose focus when I’m reading; having a notebook nearby to jot down whatever comes to mind and get it out of my head has helped me. I don’t like audiobooks either—I find that I prefer to control the pace myself. And if I listen to them at night... I fall asleep!
    I haven’t tried reading to the cat, but I think it makes sense that we’d both enjoy it. I used to read quite a bit to my dad, who went blind, but it was the sports daily newspaper, I’m not sure if that counts.
    What I’ve noticed is that the cat seems to like hearing my mom’s and my voices (as long as we’re not arguing). She relaxes and easily falls asleep. Of course, without voices, she falls asleep just the same. I don’t know if she’d make it past the table of contents of any book.

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    1. I'm notoriously bad at keeping up notebooks. I've tried it time and ago throughout my life, but it's hopeless. I think it's great if it works for others, though.
      The sports paper definitely counts. I think it's lovely you did that for him and I'm sure it created a special connection. The content itself doesn't always matter that much.
      It's not always the same here. Sometimes they both sleep and snore - which I think is very rude 😂 - but sometimes they seem to doze more than sleep or one of them grooms. It's just a peaceful atmosphere for us all, I think, and that's what counts.

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  2. I’ll admit I’ve never read to any animals, but I do love to read aloud. It was my favorite time of day when I was teaching other than doing math. I would read with accents, which were probably really bad, but my students were not that cosmopolitan that they knew. I just asked Jack if he’d like me to read to him. He yawned and laid his head back down…guess not tonight! My hair isn’t terribly long now, but I also throw it back behind me on the pillow. I just can’t stand to have it under my head when I’m sleeping.


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    1. You should try it some day! I mean it doesn't need to be a long session. If you liked reading aloud, it might still feel good to you now.
      Yeah, my hair goes down to my butt, so if I don't either throw it back or make it into a little pillow if I'm on the bed reading, it's just always in the way. I hadn't thought that the lady would start sleeping behind my head, but at least she lets me pull my hair out from under her if I need to get up while der Dekan can't resist to claw into it. I should probably braid it, but I keep losing my hair ties (and can't even blame the cats for it!).

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  3. I love this post! I can definitely see how reading aloud to the cats is calming for all involved. My mother read to me as a child up until I was around 6 or 7 and began reading on my own. I loved reading, and of course still do. I think in our push, push, push western world we miss a lot of slow, calming activities that are good for us.

    The pic of Gundel sleeping on your hair is delightful! And your hair is beautiful.

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    1. I read a book to them that I might have DNF'ed otherwise, but we were so far in that I thought they would like to hear the ending 🤣
      Seriously, though, I just found it to be a very different way of reading and as I wrote, I pick the books accordingly. If I feel I get really impatient with something, it's not a good read to do with them. The one I had a hard time with was easier to read aloud than in silence to keep me going. I just really think we all profit from it in our own way.

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  4. I talk to the cats and so does Matthew - I find it very soothing hearing him cooing to Percy when I'm in my study or the bedroom and he's in the bathroom with him. We've read to each other from time to time, I think I tried to read Iris Murdoch's The Bell to him once but didn't get very far! I used to love reading to my best friend's kids, although they'd always try to get me to read Dr Seuss, who I don't like (too anarchic for me!).

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    1. I think that's why it's easier to read to the cats, they never judge my choices unless they feel I'm not happy with a book or not in the right mood at the moment. Even if I don't notice right away myself that my voice is changing, they seem to notice which lets me know it's enough now.
      I don't think I know a whole Dr. Seuss book, just bits and pieces. I know the old animated Grinch and watched the one with Carrey for the first (and last) time last Christmas. It's not really my thing.

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  5. I love everything about this! I read a series of books called The Cat Who books and the main character reads to his cats too. I'm going to try it since my children don't really like when I read to them now. I talk to myself all of the time and narrate during tasks. I always thought I was pretty weird. lol.

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    1. How funny! I have that series, but haven't read them in forever, so I don't remember Qwilleran does that.
      Last night I had a bit of a scare and while waiting for news on that, I read to the cats. It felt peaceful, relaxed and distracted me. Although it was longer than usual they stayed with me and they didn't sleep through all of it.
      I really get why shelters do it.

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