From my children's book cabinet - Hans Christian Andersens Märchen

"Since I was a child, I loved Andersen's fairy tale about the little mermaid. Of course I always had to swallow my tears when I came to the end. Many of his tales are so bittersweet and I myself am really drawn to happy endings, if not in life, then at least in stories.
I make an exception for Andersen, though."

"Andersen's fairy tales - it was a gift from my godmother. It doesn't contain all of his fairy tales, but the ones I love most (maybe because they were the first for me?). I see the illustrations before my inner eye when thinking of these tales. I wonder why my favorites are all the sad ones ..."

"... maybe magic flowers that can heal, or dancing and talking flowers like the ones in Andersen's fairy tale "Little Ida's Flowers" which I love very much, but now I could have told Ida how to make her flower friends last a little longer ..."

"Have you ever wondered what mermaids are doing all day? ... Andersen's tale is one of my favorites."

"A mermaid - and I just can't help thinking mermaid when thinking of ocean, probably because Andersen's fairy tale has been a (sad) favorite of mine since childhood - could well wear long earrings in her flowing hair."

These are all quotes from my blog. Wow. I guess I love Andersen's fairy tales?
This is the book I got from my godmother about 55 years ago. As you can tell, it was not a book that was kept on the shelf, but one that was read - a LOT. I also have an English edition which contains more tales, but when I need some Andersen, this is the one I grab from my shelf.

Hard to see, especially in that
light, but it's blue. You should see
the spine and the cut edges.

I loved the tales and I loved the beautiful illustrations by the Polish artist Janusz Grabiański. I don't see Arielle when I think of the little mermaid, I see this picture of her as a wonderfully ethereal daughter of the air at the end.

This post was inspired by another book, by the way. During storytime at a bookshop, the main character reads "The Little Match Girl" to the children. If you don't know the tale, after having beautiful visions the little match girl freezes to death in the end and her soul goes to Heaven where her grandmother is and she is found in the morning with a happy smile on her face.

The children totally lose it as do their mothers, but one girl stays behind saying it was very sad, but she liked it, so her mother buys the book for her.
That made me wonder how I reacted to it when I was a child. I mean I have always been a pro at crying, and I'm sure I didn't just do it over the little mermaid.

Now there are of course loads of interpretations for and about fairy tales. They were warnings for children, they are supposed to teach children about emotions, about the world, about relationships, about right and wrong and consequences, they stimulate children's fantasy and their identifying with others, and much more.
That's not what I want to talk about, though.
I want to know why are all the sad ones my favorites? Okay, I also love some of those with a happy ending. Thumbelina, for example. The Snow Queen. The Ugly Duckling. But what about ...

... The Steadfast Tin Soldier?

"The next day, when a servant took up the ashes she found him in the shape of a little tin heart. But of the pretty dancer nothing was left except her spangle, and it was burned as black as a coal."

... The Fir Tree?

"Then a lad came and chopped the tree into small pieces, till a large bundle lay in a heap on the ground. The pieces were placed in a fire under the copper, and they quickly blazed up brightly, while the tree sighed so deeply that each sigh was like a pistol-shot."

... The Angel?

"Every time a good child dies, an angel of God comes down to Earth. He takes the child in his arms, spreads out his great white wings, and flies with it all over the places the child loved on Earth."

... The Red Shoes?

"The bright warm sunshine streamed through the window in the pew where Karen sat, and her heart became so filled with it, so filled with peace and joy that it broke. Her soul flew on the sunbeams to Heaven, and no one was there who asked after the red shoes."

... and of course "Little Ida's Flowers"?

"Ida first kissed the flowers, and then she closed the box and laid it in the earth. Adolph and Jonas shot their crossbows over the grave, for they had no guns or cannons".

And now we could also talk about Andersen and why he wrote so many sad stories. We could talk about his childhood, about his social awkwardness, his difficult personality, his queerness and unrequited love, but this post is not about that, either.

So, why do children also need sad and scary stories? The world IS sad and scary and happy and surprising. Fiction reflects that and allows children to learn how to cope with that in a safer space.
Fairy tales are very good at being sad and scary. I read a lot of fairy tales as a child - I loved the big shelf at the library with the collection of international fairy tales whose volumes had such pretty spines and beautifully patterned covers - and those weren't the "cleaned up" versions that we often see today. Compared to some of those, the ones I read were ... ugh, I'm fighting it, but I can't resist ... very grim(m). Ouch. I'm sorry.
It's true, though.
And some of them also traumatized me more than Andersen's stories.

So if you excuse me now ... I think I'm going to grab my fairy tale book and get a bit sad.

Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot - Week 130

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot!
My posts for the link up will go live on Thursdays at 9:30 p.m. EDT or, if you live in the future like I do, on Fridays at 3:30 a.m. CE(S)T.

Mmm, I feel like having some gingerbread.
"Gingerbread, now, are you crazy?"
No, I'm not. It's not even the first one I had this year. Until a few years ago, we had a kind of unwritten rule in the family. No gingerbread before December. No decorating before December.
But you know what? The world today is hard enough to give me anxiety and every, now and then I need to do myself something good.
If I want gingerbread, I'm going to have it. If I want to decorate in November (I haven't done it, but the month isn't over yet), I'm going to do that. If I want to listen to Christmas carols which for some weird reason make me go fuzzy and warm, but also make me cry sometimes, I'm going to go to my favorite playlists on YouTube or even listen to my old CDs.
Don't mention Thanksgiving. There is a Protestant kind of harvest Thanksgiving in Germany and there may even be some people who like the idea of a family gathering with turkey and introduce the American tradition into their lives - after all traditions travel sometimes 😊 - but I don't know anyone who does it. I'm not bound by the turkey.
Please excuse me for a few minutes while I prepare myself some tea.
Now, isn't that cozy?

Soooo ... are you ready for the weekend now?

As part of the reboot, we will be featuring a different blog every week.
How about stopping by and saying hello? Let them know we sent you.

This week, our spotlight is on Bemused and Bookish.

Olivia from "Bemused and Bookish" says "I’m an American expat who lives in Shëngjin, Albania with my exceptional husband, and a 7 pound chiweenie who rules the household. (I swear he was a cat in another life.) I love walking on the beach, sunsets, learning about my new country, interacting with blogging community, and of course books!

I will read most genres. Mystery and science fiction are my favorites. I tend to avoid romances. My all time favorite books are Project Hail Mary and the Murderbot series.

I add books to my to-be-read list almost daily and it is long enough to last me the rest of my life."

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity. Oh, who are we kidding? Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household - The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting!

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more.

Cat from Cat's Wire has what she calls a jumping spider brain. She has many interests and will blog about whatever catches her attention - crafts, books, old movies, collectibles or random things.

Rena from Fine Whatever Blog writes about style, midlife, and the "fine whatever" moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she's been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.


Here are some of my picks from last week's link up.

Penny tells us about her trips to museums in London, but also to the skin clinic.

Argyle yes or no? Jill explains why the classic Argyle pattern is back again this fall.

Esmé has a quick puff pastry and cheese recipe for us. Quick AND cheese, I'm in!

Sally is showing us the purr-fectly whimsical jewelry she created for the Style Imitating Art challenge!

Laura shares beautiful pictures of their trip to the North Shore of Lake Superior.



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Silent movies - Sure-Mike!

After last week's short, the plan had been a longer film again this week, but I kept falling asleep before even making it to the chosen one.
Then my favorite silent movie blogger wrote about a one-reeler - "Sure-Mike!" from 1925.

First, the plot (with spoilers).

Vermuda is a shop girl in a department store. 
Mike who does deliveries with his motorcycle has a crush on her, but she pines for the new manager. When he calls her into his office, she's excited, but he only wants her to deliver some parcels.
Coming back to his office, she's so shocked to see him surrounded by his wife and children that she falls out of a window just to land on Mike's motorcyle! Fate?

I really liked Martha Sleeper in "Mum's the Word", so this sounded like it was just what I needed, and it was.
The film was a fun bit of slapstick and Sleeper was hilarious as Vermuda (what a wonderful name).
We first see her rollerskating trying to make up for being late for work - a whole day!

As you can imagine, the way to work can be difficult
on rollerskates, for example if you catch your hand in
a dog leash and get pulled along the sidewalk
while felling people to the left and right. Luckily,
 she lands on Mike's motorcycle for a ride to work.

 

Sleeper is so good at the physical comedy and the faces she pulls crack me up.
To avoid the wrath of the floorwalker and the new manager, Vermuda manages to get to her counter by riding a zip line for clothes hidden by coats, and she fakes a sales talk by dressing up a mannequin (without legs).

The new manager is one of those guys who put perfume
on their eyebrows, what's not to love about him?
Unfortunately, distracted Vermuda packs up something using
the string of the balloon belonging to the customer's kid.
Yup, the parcel flies off.

No rollerskates for the delivery, but a more than full streetcar leads to more problems. I laughed through the whole scene, from Vermuda trying to find a spot to sit safely holding on to the pants of the men already holding on to the streetcar themselves and accidentally swallowing the coin for the fare to being attacked by a horse from behind.
 

The worst shock, however, is seeing the manager on his wife's lap feeding his baby.
After falling right on Mikes delivery storage box, she asks him to take her home.
She's really not lucky with her commute, though, as she loses Mike halfway without noticing it at first.

Oh no! Vermuda on the road all by herself.

No worries, Mike follows her in a car and tells her to jump into his arms at the corner.

Mike to the rescue!
Looks like he might be the right one after all.

Slapstick in high speed can get overwhelming for me, but not this one. I loved every minute, especially Sleeper, and I can only recommend this short.
I'm really late writing this post, so this time I can't go into her interesting career...s - yes, more than one, and so cool.
But she'll be back on here for sure and I'm looking forward to it!

P.S. By the way, one of Vermuda's catty co-workers is Fay Wray of King Kong fame (the one on the right)!

Sources:

1. The Silent Comedy Watch Party ep. 38 on YouTube (the film starts at 17:28)
2. Fritzi Kramer: Sure-Mike! (1925) - A Silent Film Review. On: Movies Silently, November 9, 2025

With a little help from my friend

I couldn't resist the title even if George Harrison neither wrote nor sang the song, yes, and there is an s missing, but Gundel stayed out of this one completely while der Dekan was eager to help.

Are we playing again?

Although I had planned more WIP posts of my Lego Art set, I finished it more quickly than expected.
Please meet the colorful George Harrison!
It is a cool piece of pixel art, but it wasn't as much fun as a regular Lego project. In fact, in the end it felt more like a chore that had to get finished so I could take it off a to do list.
As I mentioned in replies to comments on the original post, it could be fun to try and make a design of my own, but 1. I don't feel like ripping all the studs out despite the included brick separator (which I wish I had had as a kid), 2. designing it would be the fun, the actual bricking might feel like a chore as well, 3. I still have a pattern for another fan wall portrait waiting to be bead loomed which is a lot more fun (if I could only muster the courage to finally try out the muffin tray solution, but I put it at the top on my Christmas vacation list now).
There are studs left over, though, so maybe I can get myself a plate and try out something small on it.

I left the picture small because
it brings out the pixel art better.
Click on the picture for more detail.

George Harrison didn't end up on my wall, it would feel weird to have just him up there and also I don't want to give up wall space for this. He's on a shelf behind my big Steiff Leo now and the box - real Lego collectors may want to skip the end of this sentence - will go into the recycling after der Dekan is done with it.
I always invited him to brick with me, but a few of the sessions ended without him. He was quite good at the beginning, but mid-session he lost all patience with me not being faster and not letting him play with the contents of the box.
Some of the baggies were hidden under cardboard with an opening, for example, so you could see something was in there.
As much as I didn't want the brat to get in there and maybe escape with an open plastic bag, I couldn't be mad at him for following his natural instinct of investigating the "mousehole". My attempt at distracting him with head kisses was only partially successful because he started kneading while sitting on the box and ended up in the opening with one foot which immediately reminded him of his mission again.

There were other temptations as well, though.
I took photos during just one of our bricking sessions and thought I'd share them with you.
Der Dekan was purring the whole time, by the way, don't let his look deceive you.
It made me laugh and tell him how much I love him, but also yell "stop" and "no" and "you little devil" a lot. A video would have been great fun for you to watch, no doubt, but I would have needed a lot more arms for that!
And if you need to know, he did actually get "thrown out" after that last picture because he went for my desk then which I'm afraid to say has a few unstable piles on it at the moment and of course those are the ones der Dekan choses for his shenanigans. It's my own fault, I know, but I have to say that he has been obsessed with my desk since he was a kitten and even then was always on the lookout for stuff to knock over or down - including my laptop - although it was really organized at that time. Since then he has been using my desk for pressuring me into getting what he wants - playing, food, snacks, mere attention - or simply for letting me know he's miffed with me.

Is this thing edible?

I have to take a closer look.

What do you mean, don't destroy the instructions before you're done?
I'm good, I'm good, gee, Mom!

Maybe just a little claw action ...

You never let me have ANY fun!

Exhibit A to prove der Dekan never gets to have any fun.

You know what? You can do this thing alone if you wanna be like that, Mom.

I am not affiliated with Lego in any way, except playing with it every, now and then.

Running under the stars

 Are you still waiting for part 2 of the dress saga or the big hug? Yeah, so am I. If you have been around for a while, you know the reason, so don't be afraid, no whining today.
Let me just say that there is hope because actually one of them "only" needs a chain - "only" because that's something I have always struggled with. I even had necklaces, bracelets or earrings around for years which were missing a clasp or earwires, nothing more. That's really not something I want in this case, but I'm still caught in a sea of indecisiveness at the moment.
Would you like to see the already finished focal or would you rather wait for the completed piece?

The dresses are a different story, that's more because I need a good kick in the butt. Any volunteers?

The problem is that my creative motivation is at a low point. The ideas are piling up in my head, but the execution ... sigh.
My last experiment failed. It was not terrible, but it definitely wasn't good enough.
That's not unusual for my experiments at all. Making mistakes is how I teach myself to do it better (or sometimes give up on an idea). It used to be easier for me to deal with that when I felt I had endless creative time, but these days it feels like wasted time.
So I decided to do what I have always done when running out of motivation, turn to a trusted design. Usually that would be my miniature wire crochet baskets, but my hands wouldn't tolerate those right now, so I went back to the beaded 3D stars instead.

Some of the stars I made as Christmas
decorations in 2022

The ex was an early bird. An early, early bird. And although I'm very much a night owl I got up at hours when I would usually just fall asleep to take advantage of the ride he'd give me to work. A five minute detour for him, but saving me forty minutes every day compared to the train ride.
Anyhow, I got used to it - not saying I was ever really awake when I arrived at work, though - and in fact I loved the campus at that time. Okay, so it could be a bit spooky being very empty so early, even more so if there was fog - it always made me think of Jack the Ripper - and it's not my favorite kind of architecture, but it gave me the feeling I belonged there.
The best, however, were the little visitors. There's a forest next to the campus, and in the early morning some of the critters come out sitting in the grass between all those big concrete buildings ... mostly rabbits, hares, hedgehogs. There have been fox sightings, but I had never been that lucky.

Picture via pxhere

That memory inspired a pair of earrings.
Let me introduce Nitta who's a ceramic and jewelry artist from Finland.
She first tried ceramics in the 80s in her teens, then forgot it, but started again about eight years ago. A few years later, it became her passion and job and her happy place.
Nature and forest animals are close to Nitta's heart and she thinks that the Finnish forests are probably her biggest inspiration.
Although she doesn't just make adorable critters, with molds or handshaped, they are my favorites, foxes, birds, moths, cat heads (you may remember my cat moth with the little fangs), and more. 
I'm really trying to hold back buying supplies now that I'm thinking of giving up selling completely, but I couldn't resist Nitta's little hares - or maybe two pairs of them in different colors 😇 They make me think of Watership Down, too (even if those weren't hares, but bunnies).

First, I thought about using more than one color, but then I saw just two hares running along in the shine of golden stars.
The next decision was to use either the hares on the brown or on the greyish-blue background. That was more difficult, but as you see I went for the natural tone in tone look with just a bit of contrast in the loops from beads with one of my favorite coatings (Czech).
I think the hares don't need any more to shine and I'm really happy with them!

Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot - Week 129

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot!
My posts for the link up will go live on Thursdays at 9:30 p.m. EDT or, if you live in the future like I do, on Fridays at 3:30 a.m. CE(S)T.

End of October, the clocks went back in Germany and other countries, and the USA followed last week.
Does the time change confuse you? My cats weren't confused. They made very clear that I simply have to get up whenever they want me to, no matter what time it is. Who spoiled them so much?
If you read my post about rainy days the other day, you will know that I'm not a fan of daylight saving and I don't mind it getting dark earlier now. Actually, it gives me a cozy feeling. I have never been one to have all the lights on in my flat, I like the dark with just a bit of light here and there. It would be really nice to have some candles around, but open flames around my cats are a no-go and way too risky for my taste.

Picture via pxhere

Are you ready for the weekend now?
As part of the reboot, we will be featuring a different blog every week.
How about stopping by and saying hello? Let them know we sent you.

This week, our spotlight is on Living Outside the Stacks.

Danael says "I'm the blogger and photographer behind Living Outside the Stacks. ... I have been addicted to clothes and coffee since I was a kid. My unique fashion style is heavily influenced by my childhood in Italy. ... I've been a librarian for over twenty years. ... A little over a decade ago, The Hubs bought me my first camera and I've been chasing light ever since. ... My faith is important to me and is reflected in everything I do."

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity. Oh, who are we kidding? Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household - The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting!

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more.

Cat from Cat's Wire has what she calls a jumping spider brain. She has many interests and will blog about whatever catches her attention - crafts, books, old movies, collectibles or random things.

Rena from Fine Whatever Blog writes about style, midlife, and the "fine whatever" moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she's been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.


Here are some of my picks from last week's link up.

Do you love Monet? Read what Joanne shares about her immersive Monet experience!

Angie tells us how to fall in love with the dark romance style.

As a librarian, I'm legally bound to feature the post by Lisa about a brave librarian - in "The Mummy"! She and Erin have a Comfy, Cozy Cinema event going on for the season.
(Also check out Erin's post!)

Amy's winter squash mac and cheese, now does that sound yummy or what?



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Silent movies - A House Divided

Welcome to another short, a film directed and produced by Alice Guy-Blaché, one of the first film directors in the world (please, even if you are not interested in silent movies per se, not even in film history, but in the impact women made - often forgotten or even denied later - have a look at my blog post about her because she's one of those examples.
She made this short in 1913 under the banner of her own studio called Solax.
It's called "A House Divided".

The plot is told quickly (spoiler alert!).
Gerald and Diana are both very jealous. When they suspect the other to have been unfaithful - simply because Gerald got splashed with a bit of perfume by a salesman and because Diana has a pair of gloves lying around that a workman left behind -, their lawyer advises them to stay together, but without speaking to each other, so they start writing each other notes.
During a dinner party, they hear strange noises and Gerald goes to investigate. It turns out to be the maid who had forgotten her key and entered through the basement window.
The couple breaks into laughter and then explains to each other how it came to the misunderstanding about the perfume and gloves. Their lawyer who's a family friend and guest at the party is shocked to see them hugging and reminds them of the agreement, but Gerald tears up the document.

The first thing people usually say when I mention watching silent movies is that they would never make it through one. Fair enough, I hadn't expected myself that I would not only be able to watch a silent movie every week, but also enjoy it so much.
The second thing they point out is the overacting. I used to think the same, but so far there has not been as much overacting in the movies I watched as anticipated.
This short, however ... it's a comedy which allows for things to be over the top, but the gum-chewing secretary (I have a problem with watching people chewing gum) and her mannerisms, for example the way she kept putting her hands on her hips, were a bit much for me.

I just want to be done here and go home. Men, honestly.

What I really couldn't understand, though, was why Guy-Blaché who hung up the sign "Be natural" for her cast let Gerald get through with whatever this is. Even for 1913 that was too much and he reminded me a bit of a fish at times.

You think he's singing along to the piano? Wrong.
That's how Gerald talks, heaven knows why.

According to Fritzi Kramer's blog, trial separations were dominating newspapers at the time as a modern way to avoid divorce.
I know of divorced couples still living in the same house, but on different floors. Good for them if they can make it work. Living in one place and exchanging notes, however, sounds very awkward even after a mere row, but as a trial separation it sounds like a terrible idea if you can't avoid running into each other. Not that there was any doubt that the one here wouldn't be lasting very long 😉
From her smile when Diana showed her the notes, it looked to me as Mother would have agreed with me. Actually, Mother was my favorite character. She clearly didn't take the separation seriously.

Oh, you young people ....

I thought the plot was interesting and the film was fun, but it could have been better with a little less overacting. Still worth investing the 13 minutes!

Source:

Fritzi Kramer: A House Divided (1913) - A Silent Film Review. On: Movies Silently, February 15, 2019